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How to Manage Compulsive Behaviors

Millions of people suffer from at least one of the, compulsive behaviors, Compulsive shopping, Compulsive eating, Hoarding, Compulsive sexual behavior.

—often, even when the individual wishes they could stop—despite the fact that the act triggers negative outcomes, leads to interpersonal conflicts, or damages mental health.

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Introduction to Compulsive Behaviors

Common activities that can develop into compulsions include, compulsive  shopping, hoarding, eating, gambling, sex, and exercise. Though some behaviors are easier to over-indulge in than others, in reality, nearly any behavior has the potential of becoming a, compulsive behavior. Some people even talk compulsively, for instance.

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There are also obsessive compulsive disorder, in which a compulsive person performs certain behaviors to relieve underlying anxiety or other negative emotions. A well-known example is a person who checks and rechecks everything—if the stove is turned off, for instance, or if the door is locked.

These behaviors rarely decrease anxiety in the long run; in most cases, they only provide temporary relief. In extreme cases, compulsive behaviors start to take over the person’s work, home, and social life, at the expense of normal activities.

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How are Compulsive Behaviors and addictions connected?

Compulsive behaviors, have a genetic effect and are often seen in identical twins. I know 17 year old identical twin girls who came into the foster care system at 4 years old and have had trauma. I attributed their, compulsive behaviors, to genes from their biological parents and environment from their early years in foster care. They started, compulsive behaviors, like stealing  from about 5 years old, as they grew older that transformed into, compulsive shoplifting, then they started running away and couldn’t stop, now they are compulsively, hoarding.

Compulsion behaviors,  often arise after stressful events, trauma, or abuse as we have seen in our study of addictions. When people engage in, compulsive behaviors, they become trapped in a pattern of repetitive actions or senseless thinking from which it can be difficult to break free.

Treatment is often key for overcoming, compulsive behaviors.

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How does normal behavior turn into,  Compulsive Behaviors?

As far as the brain is concerned our rewards are reward important,  so regardless of whether it comes from a chemical or an experience and you know that there’s a
reward and people who indulge in , compulsive behaviors,  like gambling,  eating,  sex, and shopping,  become trapped in the reward system of dopamine.

Types of Compulsive Behaviors

Compulsive behaviors, come in many forms, all of which can be quite debilitating or even dangerous.

Hoarding, for instance, are those who are unable to part with even the most worthless possessions. Many hoarders find the act of purging so distressful that they live under extremely crowded and potentially harmful conditions.

  • Compulsive shopping,
  • Compulsive eating
  • Over exercising
  • Hoarding
  • Compulsive cleaning

Compulsive Hoarding,   is a psychiatric disorder which involves the accumulation of personal possessions to the point at which these accumulations interfere with your quality of life to a significant degree. The acquisition of “things” and failure to throw away unneeded objects can result in only mild symptoms of a cluttered home to a home which is too unsanitary for healthy living. At the current time, it’s thought that between two and six percent of the population is living with some degree of hoarding disorder.

  • Compulsively taking selfies and posting on social media
  • Compulsive sexual behavior or sexual addiction

What negative triggers enable Compulsive Behaviors like Hoarding.

The brain tricks us into thinking that we need the reward so we perform the, compulsive behavior, to re up the Dopamine
I know that as humans we move towards pleasure and away from pain. In my role as parent with kids who have, compulsive behaviors. These behaviors are cemented because they engage the reward centers of the brain.

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How does one break that reward system for, Compulsive Behaviors?

Don’t wait until sexual temptation attacks you before you see it as a formidable force which seeks to destroy you. Its insidious tactic is designed to enslave you into sexual sins and keep you locked into erotic desires. How you perceive sexual temptation in your life, determines how well you will overcome its deceitful force, and walk in total victory.

“Naked and Ashamed, the Battle of Sexual Temptation.” is a Christian self-help book that explains what sexual temptation is, and gives you Biblical scriptures on how to control your sexual desires, and unnatural urges.  With chapters such as recognizing the tempter, and rejecting the flesh, you will study strategies on how to recognize situations that tempts you, and learn how to keep your flesh under subjection. Although we will all be tempted sexually at some time, we can learn from this book on how to refrain from overreacting and falling into sexual bondage. So put on your seatbelt and get ready to be free from all of your unwanted sexual desires and temptations.  Order “Naked and Ashamed, The Battle of Sexual Temptation” today! Written by Sheela Fields, now available on Amazon.

Sex Addiction Treatment

Let’s look at, compulsive sexual behavior, or sexual addiction. Sexual addiction, is represented by, compulsive behavior,  in commonly available sexual practices, such as

  • Attending strip clubs,
  • Compulsive masturbation,
  • Paying for sex through prostitution,
  • Excessive use of pornography,
  • and repeated engagement in extramarital affairs.

Compulsive sexual behavior, otherwise known as sexual addiction, is an emerging psychiatric disorder that has significant medical and psychiatric consequences. Until recently, very little empirical data existed to explain the biological, psychological, and social risk factors that contribute to this condition. In addition, clinical issues, such as the natural course and best practices on treating sexual addictions, have not been formalized. Despite this absence, the number of patients and communities requesting assistance with this problem remains significant. This article will review the clinical features of compulsive sexual behavior and will summarize the current evidence for psychological and pharmacological treatment.

Dr Ahia What forms of, Sex Addiction Treatment, would you administer to someone suffering from, compulsive sexual addiction?

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How would you treat a youth that had the compulsion for taking selfies or even shoplifting?

Additional Resources for, Compulsive Behaviors

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https://myhelps.us/drug-alcohol-treatments-women-with-trauma/

https://myhelps.us/call-me-an-addict-child-abuse-statistics-p3/

https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childabuseandneglect/acestudy/index.html

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Break the Cycle of Emotional Eating To Lose Weight

Emotional eating, can be challenging to break, but here are 3 tips to help you break the cycle. In this blog, Dr Katrina Ubell, author of “How to Lose Weight For the Last Time” talks about how to escape the cycle of, emotional eating. Emotional eating, is a habit that can be hard to break, but with the right strategies, you can conquer it.

To break the cycle of, emotional eating, you first have to recognize when you’re eating for emotional reasons. Once you’ve identified your triggers, you need to find strategies to stop yourself from eating. In this post, we’re going to share with you three simple tips that can help you overcome, emotional eating, and start feeling healthier and happier!

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Dr Katrina Ubell’s book “How to Lose Weight for the Last Time” offers brain-based solutions for dropping pounds and keeping them off without suffering or sacrifice. As a pediatrician Dr Katrina Ubell MD always struggled with her weight she was either 40 pounds overweight or struggling to use lose that weight although she’d regularly counseled parents on the importance of keeping their kids healthy and fostering good eating habits.

Dr Ubell as a busy professional was never able to do the same for herself. Like everyone else she tried many different diets and programs, but would always regain that weight. In 2015 Dr Ubell cracked the code for making, weight loss permanent, and developed the program targeted at busy professionals like herself who often deprioritized their own wellness. As a, weight loss coach, Dr Ubell has signed and helped over a thousand busy Physicians and professionals find and stay at a healthy weight with her brain based program and she’s now ready to bring this program to the general public like you.

Dr Ubell’s program doesn’t involve any unrealistic diets plans, special Foods supplements or even rigorous exercise protocols; instead she uses a deep understanding of the brain and behavior patterns to get results. Through her work she’s been able to uncover and speak into Universal obstacles that stand in her way of losing and keeping the weight off.

Myrna: I know we’re all aware of the yo-yo diet, you diet you lose the weight, you start eating again because you got to, then you put the weight back on.  Share how you lost 50 pounds?  Tell us about your, weight loss journey, and how you cracked the code to keep weight off because you look pretty good right now.

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What is emotional eating

I struggled with my weight for so long, when I was younger I can identify that I definitely did some, emotional eating, which I define as just eating food when you’re not physically hungry. Your body is not asking for food, yet you’re eating anyway. I mean I might have fluctuated a little bit, but I was relatively active as a kid.

But it was never really too big of a problem, it was when I went to medical school that things really started to become a problem for me.  There just was no time for anything but studying working in the hospital, and hospital food that’s not particularly nutritious. I mean there was even a Wendy’s fast food restaurant in our Hospital. So I started struggling  in medical school so I went to Weight Watchers for the first time.

I’m a high achiever you give me a list of rules and I’m like I can do this. I will suffer follow it. I will totally sit here starving. That’s when I started drinking diet soda, because I think the bubbles and the carbonation filled me up. Some of the stuff that I would do all in the effort to get the weight off, but then what I found was that I got the weight off but I knew I couldn’t keep it off.

I really didn’t have any kind of meaningful plan for maintaining at all and so of course, I regained the weight back and then I repeated that cycle I mean literally at least 10 times over the course of my training in residency and then out in practice.

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Is keeping the weight off even possible? Yes

Myrna:   I was about to turn 40 old when my battle with, weight loss, began. I you know a lot of people around those Milestone birthdays we start to just kind of reevaluate everything and one of the things I was was thinking about was my body my weight.

Dr Ubell:  I was just trying a bunch of different things and through a very circuitous path, I tried more things that didn’t work, but through that path I was introduced to the concept of, emotional eating, before then people would talk a lot about, compulsive eating, and that term did not resonate with me. When I found out that, emotional eating, is eating for any reason other than fuel for your body, I was like oh yeah no sign me up.

I would overeat when I didn’t know any of other way to deal with my emotions and you know have a busy life. I have three kids, I have a husband who is a surgeon, so he’s got a busy as well. As a doctor there’s a lot of ups and downs and I had no other tools, no other skills so of course I would use food to cope.  Some people use alcohol, but for me it was food.

Myrna:   That was a great intro on, emotionally eating. Right now I am doing intermittent fasting and I’m supposed to eat my dinner between six and seven and I’m not supposed to eat again for the night, and it’s incredibly hard not to eat.  My brain is is telling me that I need to go eat something and I’m not hungry. I might get hungry 10 30 or 11 o’clock when I go to bed, but at 8 o’clock I’m not hungry,  but I want to eat.  How are you teaching in the book and your clients how to stop that desire to eat when they are not hungry?

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Emotional Eating when you are not hungry leads to weight gain

Dr Ubell: I am so glad you brought it up because so many people struggle with this.  Nighttime eating for people is so hard.  So the first thing we want to do though is,  we want to zoom out and look at the big picture a little bit and for everybody it’s going to be a little bit different but there’s often some common themes.

For a lot of us, this is just habit.  It’s just what we do and so our brains are like hey it’s eight o’clock  it’s time for a snack.   Some eat for comfort in the evening.  A lot of people struggle with, nighttime eating, which is why, intermittent fasting, is blowing up.

Myrna:  You said that when you were in medical school you had no time to eat right and you found out that you were not alone, that all Doctors ate bad because they had to time to eat healthy. But a lot of women and mothers have a busy life, they get up in the morning they got kids, they go to work, they come home, they gotta do dinner, sometimes it is much earlier to stop and pick up fast foods.

Dr Ubell:  I think the thing that we have to recognize is that a lot of busy women in particular think about things in the extreme swings of the pendulum.  Either they need to be cooking this home-cooked meal with all these fresh vegetables bowls that takes a long time and is pretty involved with lots of ingredients.  Nobody got time for that right, we’re not doing that.  So then I guess we’re just eating burgers at Wendy’s.

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Myrna:  Tell us about your book “How To Lose Weight For the Last Time”  I understand the main message of the book is, emotional eating, and the conversation you have in your mind about the food, but what is the predominant message that you want to put out?

Dr UBell: The main message of the book is that if you’ve struggled with overeating/your weight and you’re feeling like your relationship with food is not where you want it to be, there’s a solution.   What I talk about is what I call Peace and Freedom around food. I described before which is you are just around all the foods it’s Thanksgiving and all your favorite foods are there and you’re gonna enjoy the heck out of them, but you’re not gonna overeat them. You’re not obsessed, you’re not sitting there asking when’s the time for pie, because I can’t think of anything else.  I can’t even hold this conversation because all I’m thinking about is pie!

What we’re doing is we’re using our brains to re-regulate that so that we listen to the call of hunger, answer to the satiety signals when we’ve had enough. We have an appropriate amount of desire for food, meaning when we start getting hungry we want to eat that makes sense, but not in the middle of the day all the time.  So that’s really the message in the book is that you have way more control over this than you think.  You’re not broken, it’s not hopeless and you can’t fix.

Myrna:  So where can they get a copy of your book?  Tell us about your website and social media handles.

Conclusion

Dr Ubell:  So the book is available anywhere books are sold.  It’s also available on audible.  My website is www.KatrinaUbellMd.com and my podcast even though it’s called “Weight Loss for Busy Physicians” I have a lot of non-physician listeners, people have gotten a lot of help out of it.  On my website there’s several free resources that people can download and get started.  If you buy the book and then put in your order number on our special website which is KatrinaUbell.com/book  you’ll get a whole Workshop that I did called guarantee your weight loss success.

This is a lot about getting yourself ready to start the process so that you can really follow through and make sure that you get the results that you want. So no matter how you buy it, you can go to that website and go get those free resources.  My social media handles are coachKatrinaUbellMD mostly on Facebook Instagram.

Additional Resources

How to Reprogram your Mind to Stop Binge Eating