Allyson Chavez, prosperity and success coach stops by the show to teach us how to embrace, feminine energy, and get us out of push and hustle which is, masculine energy, to flow and pleasure.
We talk about how women can embrace, pleasure, as a success tool without feelings of guilt and shame. Allyson turned her business around after filing for Bankruptcy to over 2 million in 3 years by getting out of, masculine energy.
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BIO
Allyson Chavez is a prosperity & success coach for ambitious, God-centered women. She teaches women how to get phenomenal results with ease, bend time & space, achieve their goals without hustle or grind, and reshape their reality in feminine energy (no more constant pushing)!
She is a sought-after speaker on mindset, prosperity, universal laws and success strategies for relationships and life. She is the bestselling author of The Prosperity Approach. Her work has been featured on CBS, NBC, ABC, FOX, and hundreds of television, newspaper, and magazine outlets.
Allyson believes that challenge is necessary on your journey to success–but the struggle isn’t! Her mission is to end the struggle and bring joy to the lives of millions of women around the globe.
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Using your feminine energy to get into flow
Allyson: I was coaching women, I was teaching them to be successful. And I was in hustle and grind and constant push and figure it out and make it happen. And I’m not good enough and all of that nonsense that we go through. And actually, I built my company from nothing to multiple six figures in just over two years. But I didn’t have the right, mindset. I didn’t have the right structure behind me as far as like my own belief system.
I was just in so much, masculine energy. And so, my business began to crumble. And the harder I worked to save that thing, the faster my business fell, and it landed in a what I like to call like financial Armageddon. It was translated into a chapter 13 Bankruptcy several years ago, and when the dust settled, and I had a moment of clarity, I was like, wow, I created this and I didn’t mean to. I wonder if I can create my way out of it. I bet I can.
And I really feel like that’s the moment when God and my angels were like, she is ready. She’s gonna learn. He’s ready to suit up and get on the field and actually go do this. There were three really important things that God needed to teach me:
- First it was understanding the difference between, feminine energy, and, masculine energy.
- balancing the two and then leading with the, feminine.
- I had to learn how money actually works on a spiritual and energetic level.
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Feminine energy grew my business to multiple 6 figures
I learned how to change my beliefs and subconscious programs. And I learned those three things actually really quickly, and I started to apply them and within six months, I went from a bankruptcy to $232,000. I went from six clients to 97 clients in the same amount of time, I released 45 pounds. And it was the easiest, most effortless, most supportive 45 pounds I have ever released in my life. I did that in about four months, transformed my relationships with my spouse, with our children.
And just like all of life changed in amazing ways. And that was about three years ago. Now we’ve done over 2.1 million over the last three years. I’ve kept the weight off. I’ve kept the, feminine, on. I’ve been on this planet too with everybody else over the last three years. So, like there have been ups and downs as well. We’ve had heartbreak in our family. We’ve had the flow of money problem just like everybody else has, but it’s been amazing how we’ve been able to navigate it so much better. Because of these things that I know and especially leading with, feminine energy.
Myrna: So, I understand that, masculine energy, at work. I’ve had this really interesting guest on my show, The episode is called “What men Want In a Woman” he’s coming back again, and he’s saying that women should have their, masculine energy, at work, but they should leave it in a drawer at night. And when they go home, they switch on the, feminine energy. You’re talking about working with, feminine energy, at work.
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How to shift from masculine energy to feminine energy
Myrna; What was the catalyst in your shift from, masculine energy, to feminine energy? I mean, you went into chapter 13. But that doesn’t inevitably say, hey, I got to change to, feminine energy. What happened there?
Allyson: The catalyst was that I was robbed of joy.
So, first and foremost, I want to make a distinction. We’re not talking about male and female; we’re talking about energies of creation. Every gender has both, feminine energy, and, masculine energy, as women were meant to lead with our, feminine energy. So, if you think about an analogy, if we have a river bank, the river bank is, masculine energy, and the river is, feminine energy.
If we only have the river and no riverbank, that water gets very destructive. It goes everywhere. It seeps into everything, but it doesn’t have a whole lot of power, because it’s got has no direction behind it. If we only have the river bank, but there’s no river flowing that river bank has no purpose.
And that’s why if we as women are in constant, masculine energy, constantly building, the constant framework, the structure, the strategies, the tactics, without letting the feminine lead, which is the vision, it’s the imagination, it’s the flow. It’s the experience we desire to have. And so the, masculine, and the, feminine energies, are complementary energies. Feminine energy, is very circular or spiral in the way that it moves, masculine energy, is very linear in the way that it moves.
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Masculine energy is very linear
Think about how women have conversations. We go, here we go there we go back there. Then we circle back around here, like leaping everywhere. And men have a very hard time following that because they’re in, masculine energy, which is very linear. But when we as women lead with our, feminine, the, masculine energy, is actually divinely designed to serve the, feminine. Regena Thomas shower is an expert on, feminine energy, and she says the primary function of, feminine energy, is desire. And the primary function of, masculine energy, is the production of that desire.
So what’s here to support us in our dreams, as I’ve been pondering, and I’ve been doing research and my own experience, what came to me intuitively was feminine is the experience and masculine is the execution. So, it’s understandable why women in business whether you own your own company or whether you’re working in a corporation, we are like, all masculine all the time, because it’s about production, right? It’s about productivity. It’s about getting stuff done and meeting your numbers and all of those things that are really important here.
But that doesn’t serve anybody in the workforce if women are just behaving like shorter, less hairy men. We are robbed of a really important creative energy, which is the, feminine, and a lot of women think okay, I’m gonna wear some pink hoop earrings or hoop earrings and then that’s going to make me feminine. No, that’s not, feminine energy!
Myrna: Yes, we want to be in that, feminine, flow. We want to start in, feminine energy, and keep it throughout the day. The, feminine, is all about connection. It’s all about community.
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No need to feel guilty about feminine pleasure
Myrna: Let’s talk about, feminine pleasure, without feeling guilty shame I was listening to the Jay Shetty podcast and he was interviewing Alex Cooper, she is apparently the female Joe Rogan. So, I listened to one of her episodes on Call Her Daddy, and she was selling, vibrators. And she was saying the, vibrator, it’s going to come in a non-disclosed box so you don’t have to be ashamed. So as women we are all ashamed about, feminine pleasure.
Allyson: So, here’s the thing about, feminine pleasure, pleasure lights a woman up the same way pressure lights a man up, it fuels us in very in very different ways. So, women have been taught that, pleasure, is something to be ashamed of, that, pleasure, is a waste of time, that downtime is a waste of time. And if you go into any sort of, pleasure, now you’re behind in your work. And so why would we even do that? But women are fueled by, pleasure, the same way men are fueled by pressure.
And, since you said the word, vibrator, so we’re gonna go here, but we’re going to be really clinical about why women and men are designed the way they are. So, the reason why women are fueled by, pleasure, is that pleasure actually connects them. We have a natural connection with the eternal. Now that doesn’t mean that men aren’t spiritual, but women are more naturally wired to the eternal than men are. We are built to receive the, feminine, is a receiving energy.
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Feminine energy is a receiving energy
Feminine energy, it’s all about receiving and we have a, pleasure portal, an organ in our body that has one function, one function only, and that structure is called our is our, clitoris. In order for men to receive, pleasure, there has to be a functionality to it, as well for them to be able to receive, pleasure, through, sexual organs. But women don’t have to do that, women can just receive that pleasure and it literally connects us to God. So, if you think about those times when you have been in, pleasure, isn’t that when you get inspiration?
Isn’t that where you feel open? And you get wonderful ideas and you feel connected and you can see God more clearly in your life and you just love people more, because you’re receiving that, pleasure. So, women get fueled by, pleasure. Men get fueled by pressure, because men connect pressure to a sexual experience, because men have to experience pressure in order to ejaculate. And so, that’s creativity that’s creating life. That’s potential life, potential creation. And so, men thrive in pressure because it reminds them of creation, and their part in creation, where women actually thrive on, pleasure, because that’s their part of creation is pleasure.
Myrna: I actually heard that in order for the sperm and the egg to connect, there still has to be orgasm. I don’t know how true it is. But what you’re saying is that we’re getting, pleasure, from our, feminine energy, that’s our function in this whole creation process.
Receiving pleasure is not only sexual
Allyson: And pleasure doesn’t just have to be sexual. And I think this is where lots of women take it.
Myrna: I agree, pleasure is not always sexual. I get immense, pleasure, from walking in the park and listening to inspirational material. I get pleasure from dancing. A lot of people get, pleasure, from food.
Allyson: People get, pleasure, from a lot of things. Right? Yeah. And this is what happens when you are in, pleasure. A hormone is released called, oxytocin, in our body. And, oxytocin, is a connecting hormone. Some people call it the cuddle hormone. It’s why, when you’re in pleasure, you want to share it with somebody, you want to reach out to your girlfriends. That cuddle hormone when we’re in, oxytocin, and it helps us with our radiant as women.
Now when we are task oriented, and we’re checking the boxes and we’re crossing off the to do list, what we get hit with is, dopamine, and, dopamine, is that that sense of achievement that means you are in, masculine energy.
It’s different, because it makes you feel accomplished that feeling accomplished is a much different experience from receiving, pleasure. Both are important, but if we’re in too much, dopamine, that actually inhibits, oxytocin, which is why so many women will hit goals and still feel unfulfilled. That was what I experienced, you know, where we were making more money than we’d ever made and all I felt was tired. Then my business coaches would say “now double it.” And I’m like, are you kidding me? I just ripped up my entire soul for that. And now I got to double that thing.
Pleasure lights us up
And so that’s why that’s what I meant by like that price tag was way too high. I was in, dopamine, and I was in pressure, but I wasn’t thriving in it because we thrive in, oxytocin, and in, pleasure. Here’s what happens to us physiologically as well, when we’re in, pleasure. It actually helps us to focus more. If you’ve got brain fog going on. There are lots of different contributors to brain fog, but I fully believe that one of them is you’re in too much push and you’re in too much, masculine energy. So, if you’ll pull out of that, and you’ll get into some, pleasure.
Myrna: How can single mothers find pleasure?
Allyson: Single mothers need community, women need a community and more so than anybody else would be single mothers who are wearing the mother and the father hat all the time and the provider and the nurturer hat like all the time, they need that support group. They need their community of people that will encourage them, people that can give them breaks every once in a while so that they can reconnect with their identity, reconnect with who they are.
Start your day in, feminine energy. Start your day in quiet and if that means waking up 15 minutes early, then wake up 15 minutes early. It’s the greatest gift you can give to yourself and do a breathing meditation where you just breathe in and you breathe out and listen to soothing music with the whole intention of opening yourself up to receive, because God or your higher power wants to connect with you. Your higher self wants to guide you, wants to do the heavy lifting for you. You just need to put yourself into a position of receiving in order for that to happen.
Conclusion
Let us know how we can reach you online, your website. What is your free gift for us?
Awesome. Thank you. So, I think that the, feminine, is a deeper dive so I actually created a free download. So you can look at the list of, feminine qualities and masculine qualities right there laid out for you. You can also find out what it looks like when we show up in disempowered feminine or disempowered masculine, so you know which energy you’re playing in more often than not.
You can get that at www.prosperity approach.com/ataglance. But this was so helpful for me to just really start doing a really beautiful dance between the feminine and the masculine and leading with my feminine. I also have a podcast it’s called the prosperity approach. And so, if you want to hear my philosophy and practical tips for actually living in prosperity, rather than waiting for prosperity to come to you before you live in it, I would love to have you join my audience there as well. You can also head over to over to Allysonchavez.com You can join our free Facebook group. It’s called the prosperity experience. And I actually have regular master classes where we talk about mindset, where we talk about how to change those programs and how to lead with that feminine and you can find out more information about that at prosperity approach.com/free-masterclass
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